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The Family Guide to New York Nursing Homes

What to expect, who does what, and how to handle the problems that arise

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October 2026 edition · rightsforvictims.com

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Every year, thousands of New York families place a parent, spouse or relative in a nursing home. Most arrive knowing very little about how a nursing home works, who is responsible for what, or what the law requires. That gap matters. Families who know what to look for catch problems early, ask the right questions, and get them fixed.

This guide explains, in plain English, what happens inside a New York nursing home and what you can do when something goes wrong. We recommend that every family read it, ideally before or soon after admission.

How to use this guide

Each chapter begins with a short answer. Where it helps, chapters end with “the rules behind this,” listing the federal and New York regulations involved. You can bring those citations to a care plan meeting or a complaint.

Keep these numbers handy

Emergency or crime911
NYS Department of Health nursing home complaint hotline1-888-201-4563
Long Term Care Ombudsman1-855-582-6769
Free review of a concern, Leitner Warywoda PLLC(855) 585-2969

This guide provides general information about New York and federal nursing home rules as of the edition date. It is not legal or medical advice, and reading it does not create an attorney-client relationship. Rules change; check the current version at rightsforvictims.com/family-guide. The New York Nursing Home Resource Center is sponsored by Leitner Warywoda PLLC, 44 Elm Street, Suite 19, Huntington, NY 11743, (855) 585-2969. Attorney Advertising. Prior results do not guarantee a similar outcome.

Contents

Part 1. Getting started

  1. 1The first 30 days: a checklist for families
  2. 2What should I know before signing the admission agreement?
  3. 3Health care proxy, MOLST and DNR: what do they mean in a New York nursing home?

Part 2. Who's who in the nursing home

  1. 4Who's who in a nursing home? Staff titles and roles explained
  2. 5What does a CNA do in a nursing home?
  3. 6RN, LPN and charge nurse: what is the difference in a nursing home?
  4. 7What does the director of nursing (DON) do in a nursing home?
  5. 8What does a nursing home administrator do?
  6. 9What does a nursing home social worker do?
  7. 10Who is the doctor in a nursing home, and how often must a resident be seen?
  8. 11How many staff must a New York nursing home have?

Part 3. The care plan and the chart

  1. 12What is a nursing home care plan?
  2. 13What happens at a nursing home care plan meeting, and how do I prepare?
  3. 14What is the MDS (Minimum Data Set) in a nursing home?
  4. 15What's in a nursing home chart? A guide to the medical record
  5. 16What is a MAR and TAR in a nursing home?
  6. 17What are ADL flow sheets and CNA documentation?
  7. 18What is the Braden Scale for pressure sore risk?
  8. 19Why do staff ask me to leave during changing, and how can I check for bedsores?
  9. 20Bedsore stages explained: what do stage 1, 2, 3 and 4 mean?

Part 4. Safety, rights and common problems

  1. 21When must a nursing home notify the family?
  2. 22What should happen after a fall in a nursing home?
  3. 23How much weight loss in a nursing home is too much?
  4. 24What is a restraint in a nursing home?
  5. 25Are bed rails allowed in nursing homes?
  6. 26Is my loved one being overmedicated? Antipsychotics in nursing homes
  7. 27What are the visiting rules in New York nursing homes?
  8. 28Can a nursing home kick out a resident? Discharge rights in New York
  9. 29How do I make a complaint inside the nursing home?

Part 5. Strategies and tools

  1. 30When something goes wrong: a step-by-step plan
  2. 31Common problems at a glance
  3. 32Getting the medical records
  4. 33When should a family talk to a lawyer?
  5. 34Every-visit checklist
  6. 35Incident and conversation log
  7. 36Important contacts
  8. 37Glossary of terms and abbreviations

Part 1

Getting started

The first weeks in a nursing home set the pattern for everything that follows. This part covers what to do at admission and the legal documents that decide who can speak for the resident.

  1. 1 The first 30 days: a checklist for families
  2. 2 What should I know before signing the admission agreement?
  3. 3 Health care proxy, MOLST and DNR: what do they mean in a New York nursing home?

Chapter 1 · Start here

The first 30 days: a checklist for families

AdmissionDay 0Baseline care planWithin 48 hoursFirst MDS assessmentWithin 14 daysFull care plan + meetingWithin 7 days of the MDSReview and updateAbout every 3 months and after any major change
Key deadlines after admission under federal rules.

Most problems that become serious later can be traced to the first few weeks: a care plan that was never finished, a risk no one noticed, or a family that did not yet know whom to call. Use this checklist to get off on the right footing.

Before or on admission day

The first week

Weeks two through four

Chapter 2

What should I know before signing the admission agreement?

The short answer

The admission agreement is a contract. Read it before signing, ask for a copy, and do not sign anything you do not understand. Federal rules say a nursing home cannot make an arbitration agreement a condition of admission, and cannot require a family member to personally guarantee payment.

Arbitration agreements

Many admission packets include an agreement to send any future dispute, including a claim of neglect or abuse, to private arbitration instead of court. Under federal rules for Medicare and Medicaid facilities:

You may simply decline to sign. If you already signed and are within 30 days, cancel it in writing and keep a copy.

Payment guarantees

A facility may ask a family member who has legal access to the resident's money to use that money to pay the bill. It may not require a third party to personally guarantee payment as a condition of admission. If you sign as "responsible party," read exactly what you are agreeing to.

Other things to look for

Chapter 3

Health care proxy, MOLST and DNR: what do they mean in a New York nursing home?

The short answer

A health care proxy names an agent to make medical decisions if the resident cannot. A MOLST (Medical Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment) is a New York form, signed by a practitioner, that turns the resident's wishes about CPR, hospitalization, feeding tubes and other treatment into medical orders the staff must follow. If there is no proxy, New York's Family Health Care Decisions Act lets a family member act as surrogate in a set order of priority.

The documents

What families should check

A power of attorney is different. It covers finances, not medical decisions. See does a power of attorney help.

The rules behind this

Part 2

Who's who in the nursing home

Knowing who does what tells you whom to ask, whom to call when something goes wrong, and who is responsible for fixing it.

  1. 4 Who's who in a nursing home? Staff titles and roles explained
  2. 5 What does a CNA do in a nursing home?
  3. 6 RN, LPN and charge nurse: what is the difference in a nursing home?
  4. 7 What does the director of nursing (DON) do in a nursing home?
  5. 8 What does a nursing home administrator do?
  6. 9 What does a nursing home social worker do?
  7. 10 Who is the doctor in a nursing home, and how often must a resident be seen?
  8. 11 How many staff must a New York nursing home have?

Chapter 4

Who's who in a nursing home? Staff titles and roles explained

The short answer

A nursing home is run by a licensed administrator. Nursing care is directed by the director of nursing, a registered nurse, and delivered by registered nurses (RNs), licensed practical nurses (LPNs) and certified nursing assistants (CNAs), who give most hands-on care. A medical director and attending physicians oversee medical care. Social workers, dietitians, therapists, activities staff and an infection preventionist round out the team.

AdministratorRuns the whole facility Director of NursingLeads all nursing staff Medical DirectorPhysician policies and quality Department headsSocial work · dietary · therapy Unit manager / ADONRuns a unit day to day Attending physiciansEach resident's own doctor Charge nurse (RN or LPN)Medications, assessments Nursing assistants (CNAs)Most hands-on daily care Activities · housekeepingEnvironment and daily life OmbudsmanIndependent, not facility staff Start with the person closest tothe problem, then move up thenursing chain on the left.
A typical nursing home organization. Titles vary by facility.

Leadership

Nursing staff on the unit

Other professionals

Not facility staff

The Long Term Care Ombudsman is an independent advocate for residents, reachable at 1-855-582-6769. Ombudsmen do not work for the facility.

Who to call about what

The rules behind this

Chapter 5

What does a CNA do in a nursing home?

The short answer

A certified nursing assistant (CNA) provides most of the hands-on care a nursing home resident receives: bathing, dressing, grooming, help with eating and drinking, toileting and incontinence care, turning and repositioning, transfers and walking, and taking vital signs. CNAs work under the supervision of nurses and are usually the first to notice changes such as new redness, poor appetite or confusion.

Typical duties

What CNAs generally may not do

CNAs generally do not give medications, perform wound treatments or make clinical assessments. Those are nursing duties. If a CNA reports a problem, a nurse is responsible for assessing it and acting.

Training and certification

Federal rules require nurse aides to complete a state-approved training program of at least 75 hours, including supervised clinical training, and to pass a competency evaluation. A facility may not use someone as a nurse aide for more than four months unless the aide has completed training and is competent. New York maintains a Nurse Aide Registry where certification can be checked.

Why this matters

When a facility is short-staffed, the CNAs feel it first: each aide has more residents, and turning, toileting and feeding help get skipped. New York requires a minimum amount of CNA care time per resident each day. See New York nursing home staffing requirements.

Tips for families

The rules behind this

Chapter 6

RN, LPN and charge nurse: what is the difference in a nursing home?

The short answer

A registered nurse (RN) has the broadest training and is responsible for assessing residents, care planning and supervising. A licensed practical nurse (LPN) works under the direction of an RN or physician and typically gives medications and treatments. The charge nurse is whichever licensed nurse is in charge of a unit on a given shift. Many nursing home units are run day to day by LPNs, with an RN supervisor covering the building.

Registered nurse (RN)

Federal rules require an RN on duty at least eight consecutive hours a day, seven days a week.

Licensed practical nurse (LPN)

Charge nurse

Federal rules require a licensed nurse to serve as charge nurse on each shift. The charge nurse is the first person to ask about how a resident is doing that day, about medications, and about anything a CNA has reported.

Why it matters

When a resident has a change in condition, such as a fall, fever, new confusion, a new wound or not eating, a nurse must assess the resident and notify the physician and family. Ask who assessed the resident and what was done.

The rules behind this

Chapter 7

What does the director of nursing (DON) do in a nursing home?

The short answer

The director of nursing (DON) is the registered nurse responsible for all nursing care in the facility. The DON oversees the nurses and nursing assistants, nursing policies, staffing schedules, training and the quality of resident care. Federal rules require every nursing home to have a full-time RN as director of nursing.

Responsibilities

When to contact the DON

Start with the charge nurse or unit manager for day-to-day issues. Go to the DON when a problem repeats, when the unit does not fix it, or when something serious happens: a fall with injury, a new pressure injury, an unexplained bruise or fracture, a medication error, or signs of abuse. Put your concern in writing (an email is fine) and ask for a written response.

Related roles

The rules behind this

Chapter 8

What does a nursing home administrator do?

The short answer

The nursing home administrator is the licensed manager responsible for running the entire facility: operations, budget, staffing levels, hiring, policies, regulatory compliance and responding to inspections and complaints. In New York the administrator must hold a state nursing home administrator license. The administrator answers to the facility's owners or governing body.

Responsibilities

When to go to the administrator

Put the concern in writing and keep a copy. If the administrator does not act, file a complaint with the Department of Health.

The rules behind this

Chapter 9

What does a nursing home social worker do?

The short answer

The social worker (often called "social services") helps residents and families with the non-medical side of nursing home life: admission, scheduling care plan meetings, family communication, emotional and behavioral needs, roommate issues, missing belongings, benefits such as Medicaid, grievances and discharge planning. Facilities with more than 120 beds must employ a qualified social worker full time.

What social services does

What social services does not do

The social worker does not direct nursing care. Concerns about falls, wounds, medications or hands-on care should go to nursing (the unit manager or director of nursing), with a copy to the social worker.

Tips

The rules behind this

Chapter 10

Who is the doctor in a nursing home, and how often must a resident be seen?

The short answer

Every resident has an attending physician, who may be assisted by a nurse practitioner or physician assistant. Federal rules require a physician visit at least every 30 days for the first 90 days after admission and at least every 60 days after that, with some visits allowed to alternate with an NP or PA. Separately, each facility has a medical director who oversees medical care policies.

Attending physician

How often visits happen

Many residents are actually seen more often by a nurse practitioner. Ask who the resident's provider is and how to reach them.

Medical director

The medical director is a physician responsible for implementing resident care policies and coordinating medical care in the facility. The medical director is not usually each resident's personal doctor, but is a person to involve when medical care problems are systemic.

Tips

The rules behind this

Chapter 11

How many staff must a New York nursing home have?

The short answer

New York law requires nursing homes to provide an average of at least 3.5 hours of direct nursing care per resident per day, with at least 2.2 hours from certified nursing assistants and at least 1.1 hours from licensed nurses (RNs and LPNs). Federal rules also require an RN on duty at least eight hours a day, seven days a week, a licensed charge nurse on every shift, and enough staff to meet every resident's needs.

The rules

The minimum is a floor, not a target. A unit with many residents who need two-person transfers, feeding help or frequent turning may need far more.

How to check staffing

Signs of understaffing

The rules behind this

Part 3

The care plan and the chart

The care plan says what the facility promised to do. The chart shows what it says it did. Families who understand both can spot problems early.

  1. 12 What is a nursing home care plan?
  2. 13 What happens at a nursing home care plan meeting, and how do I prepare?
  3. 14 What is the MDS (Minimum Data Set) in a nursing home?
  4. 15 What's in a nursing home chart? A guide to the medical record
  5. 16 What is a MAR and TAR in a nursing home?
  6. 17 What are ADL flow sheets and CNA documentation?
  7. 18 What is the Braden Scale for pressure sore risk?
  8. 19 Why do staff ask me to leave during changing, and how can I check for bedsores?
  9. 20 Bedsore stages explained: what do stage 1, 2, 3 and 4 mean?

Chapter 12

What is a nursing home care plan?

The short answer

A care plan is the facility's written plan for how it will meet a resident's needs. It lists each problem or risk (such as falls, pressure sores, weight loss or confusion), a goal for each one, and the specific steps staff must take. Federal rules require a starter plan within 48 hours of admission and a full plan shortly after the first full assessment, and the resident and family have the right to help write it.

AdmissionDay 0Baseline care planWithin 48 hoursFirst MDS assessmentWithin 14 daysFull care plan + meetingWithin 7 days of the MDSReview and updateAbout every 3 months and after any major change
When the care plan is written and updated.

What a care plan contains

A care plan is organized by problem. For each one you should see:

When it is written and updated

Your right to take part

Residents have the right to take part in planning their care, to choose who else attends, to see the care plan, and to have meetings scheduled when they and their family can attend. If the resident cannot participate, the health care agent, guardian or other representative steps in. See how to prepare for a care plan meeting.

How to tell whether the plan is being followed

A care plan only matters if staff carry it out. Compare what the plan says with what you see. If the plan calls for a pressure-relieving mattress, heel protectors, a bed alarm or two-person transfers, look for them. If the plan says "encourage fluids" but the water pitcher is always full and out of reach, raise it.

The records show whether interventions were documented: the nursing assistant flow sheets, the medication and treatment records, and the nursing notes. Gaps between the plan and those records are often the first sign of neglect.

Red flags

The rules behind this

Chapter 13

What happens at a nursing home care plan meeting, and how do I prepare?

The short answer

A care plan meeting is a sit-down with the team that cares for the resident, usually nursing, social work, dietary, therapy and activities, to review how the resident is doing and update the care plan. It is typically held after each assessment, about every three months, and after major changes. Residents and their representatives have the right to attend and to ask that it be scheduled at a time they can make.

Who attends

The team (often called the "interdisciplinary team" or "IDT") must include the attending physician, a registered nurse responsible for the resident, a nursing assistant responsible for the resident, and a member of the food and nutrition staff, plus others as needed such as social work, therapy and activities. In practice the physician and the nursing assistant are often missing. You can ask that they attend or that their input be provided.

How often

Most facilities hold a meeting after each scheduled assessment, which is roughly every three months, plus after a significant change in condition. You can ask for a meeting at any time if you have concerns. You can also ask to attend by phone or video.

How to prepare

Questions to ask

After the meeting

Send a short email or letter to the social worker summarizing what was agreed. That creates a record. If the agreed changes do not happen, raise it with the director of nursing, and if needed file a grievance or a complaint with the Department of Health.

The rules behind this

Chapter 14

What is the MDS (Minimum Data Set) in a nursing home?

The short answer

The Minimum Data Set (MDS) is a detailed, standardized assessment that every Medicare- and Medicaid-certified nursing home must complete for each resident. It covers memory, mood, behavior, mobility, eating, continence, skin, falls and medications. It is done within 14 days of admission, reviewed at least every three months, redone yearly and redone after any significant change in condition. The care plan is built from it.

What it measures

The MDS is organized into sections, including cognition (often a short memory test called the BIMS), mood, behavior, ability to perform daily activities such as eating, toileting and walking, bladder and bowel continence, weight and nutrition, skin condition including pressure injuries, falls since the last assessment, and certain medications such as antipsychotics.

When it is done

A registered nurse must conduct or coordinate each assessment. Many facilities employ an "MDS coordinator" for this.

Why it matters to families

You can ask for copies of the MDS assessments as part of the resident's records. Our records request kit includes them.

The rules behind this

Chapter 15

What's in a nursing home chart? A guide to the medical record

The short answer

A nursing home chart is made up of many separate records, most of them now electronic. The key parts are physician orders, physician and nursing progress notes, the medication and treatment administration records (MAR and TAR), nursing assistant flow sheets, the MDS assessments, care plans, skin and wound records, weights and intake records, fall and incident documentation, labs and hospital transfer forms.

The main parts

What families often miss

How to get the chart

Residents and their legal representatives have the right to see the record within 24 hours and get copies within two working days. After a death, the executor, administrator or a close family member can request the records. Our free kit generates the request letter.

The rules behind this

Chapter 16

What is a MAR and TAR in a nursing home?

The short answer

The MAR, or medication administration record, lists every medication a resident is ordered and records each dose: the time, the nurse's initials, and a code if it was refused, held or not available. The TAR, or treatment administration record, does the same for treatments such as wound dressings, skin barrier creams, oxygen and special monitoring. Most nursing homes now keep both electronically (an eMAR and eTAR).

How to read them

What to look for

Federal rules require each facility to keep its medication error rate below 5 percent and to ensure residents are free of significant medication errors.

The rules behind this

Chapter 17

What are ADL flow sheets and CNA documentation?

The short answer

ADL flow sheets (also called CNA documentation or "point of care" records) are where nursing assistants record the hands-on care they give each shift: bathing, dressing, eating and how much of each meal was eaten, toileting and incontinence care, transfers, walking and turning and repositioning. They are usually entered on a kiosk or tablet. They are often the best evidence of whether basic care was actually given.

What they record

Why they matter

Pressure injuries, dehydration and weight loss usually develop when basic care is missed. Flow sheets show whether a resident at risk for bedsores was actually turned, whether a resident who needs feeding help was actually fed, and whether incontinence care was done. Compare them with the care plan: if the plan says "turn every two hours" and the flow sheet shows one entry per shift, that is a gap.

Warning signs in the records

Staffing assignment sheets show which aide was responsible for the resident on each shift. Those are generally not available through a records request, but can be obtained in litigation.

The rules behind this

Chapter 18

What is the Braden Scale for pressure sore risk?

The short answer

The Braden Scale is a standard tool nurses use to estimate a resident's risk of developing a pressure injury (bedsore). It scores six factors: sensory perception, moisture, activity, mobility, nutrition, and friction and shear. Totals range from 6 to 23. Lower scores mean higher risk: generally 15 to 18 is mild risk, 13 to 14 moderate, 10 to 12 high and 9 or below very high.

Very high riskHigh riskModerateMild riskLow risk 67891011121314151617181920212223 ← Lower score, higher risk Higher score, lower risk → Total Braden score (six factors, each scored 1 to 3 or 4)
Braden Scale risk levels. Any score of 18 or below calls for prevention steps in the care plan.

The six factors

What should happen when the score is low

A risk score is only useful if it leads to action. For an at-risk resident, the care plan should include specific prevention steps, such as a pressure-redistributing mattress, a turning and repositioning schedule, heel protection or "floating" heels on a pillow, prompt incontinence care, barrier creams, and a dietitian review.

What to ask

A falling Braden score with no change in the care plan, followed by a new wound, is a common pattern in pressure injury neglect cases.

The rules behind this

Chapter 19

Why do staff ask me to leave during changing, and how can I check for bedsores?

The short answer

Staff usually ask visitors to step out during bathing and changing to protect the resident's privacy and dignity, and sometimes a roommate's. But privacy is the resident's right, not the facility's. If the resident wants you there, or you are the resident's legal representative and it is appropriate, you can ask to stay. Either way, you can ask the nurse for a skin check with you present, ask for the latest skin and wound records, and watch for warning signs.

Lying on the back Back of headShoulder bladesElbowsTailbone (sacrum)Heels Lying on the side EarShoulderHipKneeAnkle Bony areas carry the most pressure. Check them during care.
Where pressure injuries most often form.

Why staff ask you to leave

When you can ask to stay

If the resident can make decisions and wants you present, the resident can say so. If the resident lacks capacity and you are the health care agent or guardian, you can ask to be present or to see the skin, keeping the resident's dignity in mind. Close the curtain and ask that the roommate's privacy be respected. If staff refuse, ask why in writing and raise it with the director of nursing.

Practical ways to check on the skin

Warning signs you can see without undressing anyone

Do not remove dressings yourself. If the resident agrees, photographs of a wound taken by family with a date can be useful later; avoid capturing other residents. The facility must notify the resident's representative of a significant change in condition, which includes a new or worsening pressure injury. See bedsore stages explained.

The rules behind this

Chapter 20

Bedsore stages explained: what do stage 1, 2, 3 and 4 mean?

The short answer

Pressure injuries are staged by depth. Stage 1 is intact skin with a red area that does not fade when pressed. Stage 2 is a shallow open sore or blister. Stage 3 goes through the full thickness of the skin into fat. Stage 4 exposes muscle, tendon or bone. An unstageable wound is covered by dead tissue so its depth cannot be seen, and a deep tissue injury is a purple or maroon area of damage beneath intact skin.

SkinDermisFatMuscleBone Stage 1 Skin intact; redness does not fade Stage 2 Shallow open sore or blister Stage 3 Full-thickness loss; fat may show Stage 4 Deep wound to muscle, tendon or bone
Pressure injury stages, shown in cross-section. An injury covered by dead tissue that cannot be seen is called “unstageable.”

The stages

Where they form

Over bony areas that bear weight: the tailbone (sacrum and coccyx), buttocks, hips, heels, ankles, elbows, shoulder blades, and the back of the head and ears.

What the rules require

Federal rules require nursing homes to ensure that a resident does not develop a pressure injury unless the resident's condition made it clinically unavoidable, and that a resident with one receives the treatment needed to promote healing and prevent infection. The facility must document that it assessed risk and carried out prevention before claiming a wound was unavoidable.

Watch the progression

Wound records should show weekly measurements and descriptions. A wound that keeps getting larger or deeper, a stage 2 that becomes a stage 4, or a wound first documented at stage 3 or 4 (meaning earlier stages were missed) are serious warning signs.

The rules behind this

Part 4

Safety, rights and common problems

Falls, weight loss, restraints, sedating drugs, discharge notices and visiting limits are where families most often need to act. Each chapter explains the rules and what to do.

  1. 21 When must a nursing home notify the family?
  2. 22 What should happen after a fall in a nursing home?
  3. 23 How much weight loss in a nursing home is too much?
  4. 24 What is a restraint in a nursing home?
  5. 25 Are bed rails allowed in nursing homes?
  6. 26 Is my loved one being overmedicated? Antipsychotics in nursing homes
  7. 27 What are the visiting rules in New York nursing homes?
  8. 28 Can a nursing home kick out a resident? Discharge rights in New York
  9. 29 How do I make a complaint inside the nursing home?

Chapter 21

When must a nursing home notify the family?

The short answer

A nursing home must immediately inform the resident, consult the resident's physician, and notify the resident's representative (such as the health care agent or a designated family member) when there is an accident that results in injury and has the potential to require a doctor's intervention, a significant change in physical, mental or psychosocial condition, a need to change treatment significantly, or a decision to transfer or discharge the resident.

Events that should trigger a call

Make sure the facility can reach you

If you were not told

Late or missing notification is a common finding in Department of Health inspections. Ask for the nursing note documenting the notification. If you learned of an injury or wound on your own, write down when and how, and raise it with the director of nursing.

The rules behind this

Chapter 22

What should happen after a fall in a nursing home?

The short answer

After a fall, a nurse should immediately assess the resident for injury, including neurological checks if the resident hit his or her head or the fall was unwitnessed; notify the physician and the family; obtain any needed x-rays or hospital care; investigate how and why the fall happened; and update the care plan with new interventions to prevent another fall. Unexplained injuries such as a fracture with no known cause must be reported to the state.

What the facility should do

Questions to ask

Fractures and head injuries

Hip fractures and brain bleeds are among the most serious nursing home injuries. A fracture with no explanation, or bruising in unusual places, is an "injury of unknown origin" that the facility must report to the state and investigate. Facilities must report alleged abuse or serious bodily injury within two hours, and other alleged violations within 24 hours.

The rules behind this

Chapter 23

How much weight loss in a nursing home is too much?

The short answer

Nursing homes generally treat as significant a weight loss of 5 percent in 30 days, 7.5 percent in 90 days or 10 percent in 180 days. Significant loss should trigger reweighing to confirm, a dietitian and physician review, a look for causes such as dental problems, swallowing difficulty, depression or lack of feeding help, and changes to the care plan. Facilities must help each resident keep acceptable body weight and stay hydrated unless the resident's condition makes that impossible.

Warning signs

What should happen

Questions to ask

The rules behind this

Chapter 24

What is a restraint in a nursing home?

The short answer

A physical restraint is anything attached to or near a resident's body that the resident cannot easily remove and that limits movement or access to the body, such as a vest, lap belt, tray table or tucked sheets, and sometimes bed rails or a chair the resident cannot get out of. A chemical restraint is a drug used for discipline or staff convenience rather than to treat a medical symptom. Residents have the right to be free from both, except when required to treat a medical symptom.

Physical restraints

Whether something is a restraint depends on its effect on the resident, not its name. Common examples:

Chemical restraints

A medication becomes a chemical restraint when it is used to make a resident easier to manage rather than to treat a diagnosed condition. Antipsychotics and sedatives given to calm "behaviors" are the most common concern. See antipsychotics in nursing homes.

When restraints are allowed

Only when needed to treat a specific medical symptom, after less restrictive alternatives have been tried, for the shortest time possible, with the resident's or representative's informed consent and regular reassessment. Staff convenience and short staffing are never valid reasons.

Why restraints are dangerous

Restraints do not reliably prevent falls. They can cause strangulation and entrapment, pressure injuries, muscle loss, incontinence, agitation and depression.

What families can do

The rules behind this

Chapter 25

Are bed rails allowed in nursing homes?

The short answer

Bed rails are allowed only under conditions. Before installing them, a nursing home must try appropriate alternatives, assess the resident for the risk of entrapment, review the risks and benefits with the resident or representative and get informed consent, and make sure the bed and rails fit and are maintained. Rails that keep a resident from getting out of bed can also count as a restraint.

The dangers

Residents can become trapped between the rail and the mattress, between split rails, or between the rail and the headboard, which can cause suffocation, strangulation and death. Residents also climb over rails and fall from a greater height.

What the facility must do

What to look for

If you see an entrapment risk, report it to the nurse in writing immediately.

The rules behind this

Chapter 26

Is my loved one being overmedicated? Antipsychotics in nursing homes

The short answer

Antipsychotic drugs such as quetiapine (Seroquel), risperidone (Risperdal), olanzapine (Zyprexa) and haloperidol (Haldol) carry an FDA boxed warning of increased risk of death in elderly people with dementia. Federal rules allow psychotropic drugs only when needed to treat a specific, documented condition, require attempts to reduce the dose, and limit "as needed" orders to 14 days unless the prescriber documents why a longer order is appropriate.

Signs of overmedication

What the rules require

Questions to ask

Check the MAR for how often PRN sedatives are actually given. Each facility's antipsychotic use rate is a Medicare quality measure.

The rules behind this

Chapter 27

What are the visiting rules in New York nursing homes?

The short answer

Residents have the right to receive the visitors they choose at the time they choose, subject to the resident's own wishes and reasonable clinical or safety restrictions. Immediate family and the resident's representative must have access at any time, subject to the resident's consent. A facility may not limit visits as punishment for complaints.

What the facility can and cannot do

Why visits matter

Regular, unannounced visits at different times of day are one of the best protections a resident has. Families notice weight loss, poor hygiene, unanswered call bells and changes in mood that the chart may not show.

If a facility restricts your visits, ask for the reason in writing, contact the Ombudsman and consider a complaint to the Department of Health.

The rules behind this

Chapter 28

Can a nursing home kick out a resident? Discharge rights in New York

The short answer

A nursing home may transfer or discharge a resident against the resident's wishes only for limited reasons: the facility cannot meet the resident's needs, the resident's health has improved, the resident endangers the safety or health of others, the resident has failed to pay after notice, or the facility is closing. The facility generally must give 30 days' written notice explaining the reason and the right to appeal, and in most cases cannot discharge the resident while an appeal is pending.

The notice

A discharge notice must be in writing, state the reason and effective date, say where the resident will go, explain how to appeal, and give contact information for the Long Term Care Ombudsman. A copy must go to the Ombudsman. Shorter notice is allowed only in limited situations, such as an emergency or when the resident has been in the facility less than 30 days.

What to do

Discharge as retaliation

A discharge threat that follows family complaints is a red flag. Residents and families may voice grievances without reprisal.

The rules behind this

Chapter 29

How do I make a complaint inside the nursing home?

The short answer

Every nursing home must have a grievance policy and a grievance official responsible for handling complaints. You can file a grievance orally or in writing; writing is better. The facility must investigate, take corrective action, and give a written decision. Filing a grievance with the facility does not stop you from complaining to the Department of Health or the Ombudsman at the same time.

How to file

What the facility must do

When to go outside the facility

For abuse, serious injury, or a problem the facility does not fix, file a complaint with the New York State Department of Health (1-888-201-4563) and contact the Ombudsman (1-855-582-6769). Ask for any grievances about the resident and the facility's written responses as part of the records request.

The rules behind this

Part 5

Strategies and tools

A step-by-step plan for when something goes wrong, a quick-reference chart of common problems, and forms you can tear out and use.

  1. 30 When something goes wrong: a step-by-step plan
  2. 31 Common problems at a glance
  3. 32 Getting the medical records
  4. 33 When should a family talk to a lawyer?
  5. 34 Every-visit checklist
  6. 35 Incident and conversation log
  7. 36 Important contacts
  8. 37 Glossary of terms and abbreviations

Chapter 30 · Strategy

When something goes wrong: a step-by-step plan

1 Nurse or CNAon duty 2 Charge nurse /unit manager 3 Directorof Nursing 4 Administrator 5 Writtengrievance OUTSIDE HELP at any step Department of Health1-888-201-4563Ombudsman1-855-582-6769Emergency or crime911
Raise concerns in order, but you may go outside the facility at any point.

When you see a problem, it is natural to feel angry or unsure whom to tell. A calm, organized approach gets faster results and protects your loved one if the problem turns out to be serious.

Step 1. Make sure your loved one is safe

If there is an emergency, a serious injury, or you believe a crime has occurred, call 911. Otherwise, ask the nurse on duty to assess the resident now and to call the doctor. Ask what the doctor ordered.

Step 2. Write it down

Step 3. Go up the ladder

Start with the person closest to the problem and move up if it is not fixed.

  1. The nursing assistant or nurse on duty for day-to-day care.
  2. The charge nurse or unit manager when the problem continues or involves a nursing assessment.
  3. The Director of Nursing for repeated problems, injuries, staffing or skin breakdown.
  4. The Administrator when nursing leadership does not fix it.
  5. A written grievance to the facility's grievance official. The facility must investigate and give you a written decision.

Step 4. Go outside the facility when you need to

You do not have to finish the steps above first. For abuse, a serious injury, or a problem that keeps happening:

Step 5. Get the records

The chart shows what the facility documented and what it did not. See "Getting the medical records" in this part.

Step 6. Know when to get legal advice

If the resident suffered a serious injury, a severe pressure injury, a fracture, major weight loss, an infection that led to sepsis, abuse, or an unexpected death, speak with a lawyer early. Deadlines can be short, and evidence such as video and staffing records may be overwritten.

Chapter 31 · Quick reference

Common problems at a glance

Use this chart when something does not look right. Each row points to the chapter that explains the rules and what to ask.

ProblemWarning signsWhat to do firstRead
Bedsores (pressure injuries)Redness that does not fade, blisters, open areas on the tailbone, hips or heels; odor; resident left in one positionAsk the nurse to look now; ask for the wound measurements, the Braden score and the turning scheduleCh. 20
FallsNew bruises, pain, a new limp, a resident found on the floor, an alarm or mat that is missingAsk whether the doctor and family were notified, what caused it, and what the care plan now requiresCh. 22
Weight loss or dehydrationLoose clothes, uneaten trays, water out of reach, dry mouth, dark urine, new confusionAsk for the weight record and intake records; ask for a dietitian reviewCh. 23
Sudden confusion or sleepinessA change from the resident's usual self over hours or daysTreat it as a change in condition; ask about infection, new drugs and a doctor's evaluationCh. 21
New sedating or antipsychotic drugDrowsiness, falls, withdrawal, drooling, stiffnessAsk what the drug is for, who consented, and the plan to reduce itCh. 26
Restraints or bed railsBelts, trays, chairs the resident cannot leave, rails raised on both sidesAsk for the assessment, the medical reason and the consent formCh. 24
Unexplained injury or possible abuseBruises, fractures, fear of a staff member, torn clothing, withdrawalReport it to the Administrator in writing and to the Department of Health; call 911 for a crimeCh. 29
Family not toldYou learn of a fall, hospital trip or new drug after the factRemind the facility in writing that you are the contact to be notifiedCh. 21
Call bells not answeredLong waits, a resident left wet or soiled, missed mealsNote times and dates; ask about staffing on that shift; take it to the Director of NursingCh. 11
Discharge or transfer noticeA notice that the resident must leave, or a refusal to readmit after a hospital stayDo not move the resident; read the notice, appeal, and call the OmbudsmanCh. 28
Visits restrictedLimits on hours or on who may visitAsk for the reason in writing; contact the OmbudsmanCh. 27

Chapter 32

Getting the medical records

Written requestDay 0Inspect the recordsWithin 24 hours*Receive copiesWithin 2 working days *excluding weekends and holidays (federal rule for Medicare and Medicaid facilities)
How quickly the facility must provide access.

The short answer

A resident, or the person legally authorized to act for the resident, has the right to see the nursing home records within 24 hours of asking (excluding weekends and holidays) and to receive copies within two working days. After a death, the estate's representative can request them.

Who can ask

What to ask for

Ask for the complete record, not a summary: nursing notes, care plans, MDS assessments, medication and treatment records, nursing assistant flow sheets, wound records and photographs, weight records, incident reports and physician orders. Ask for electronic records in electronic form.

A free kit to help

Our free Records Request Kit includes a request letter, instructions and the forms families most often need. It is at rightsforvictims.com/nursing-home-records.

Chapter 33

When should a family talk to a lawyer?

Most concerns can and should be raised with the facility first. But some situations call for legal advice right away, because the facility's records, video and staffing information may not be kept for long, and legal deadlines may be running.

Situations that warrant a call

Deadlines

New York sets strict time limits for injury and wrongful death claims. Claims involving a county- or city-run nursing home can require a formal notice within as little as 90 days. Do not wait to find out whether a deadline applies.

What to bring

Your log or notes, any photographs, letters and emails with the facility, the admission agreement, discharge papers, and any records you have already received.

Chapter 34 · Tool

Every-visit checklist

Take a minute on each visit to look at the same things. Small changes are easiest to fix when they are caught early.

Comfort and care

  • Fresh water within reach; resident able to drink it
  • Clean, dry, and dressed; no odor of urine or stool
  • Hair, nails, mouth and dentures cleaned
  • Glasses, hearing aids and dentures in place
  • Meal tray eaten, or help given with eating
  • Clothes fitting the same way (no new looseness)

Skin and safety

  • Repositioned since your last visit; not in the same spot for hours
  • Heels off the mattress; cushions and special mattress in use
  • No new bruises, skin tears, redness or bandages
  • Call bell within reach; answered promptly
  • Bed low, mats and alarms in place if the care plan calls for them
  • Walker or wheelchair within reach and in good repair

Mind and mood

  • Alert and acting like their usual self
  • No new sleepiness, confusion, agitation or fear
  • No signs of pain when moving
  • Taking part in activities and meals with others

Talk to staff

  • Asked the nurse about any changes, new orders or new drugs
  • Asked about falls, weight and skin since last visit
  • Wrote down names and anything that needs follow-up

Chapter 35 · Tool

Incident and conversation log

Write things down as soon as you can. Keep this log with copies of any letters or emails.

Date / timeWhat I saw or was toldStaff involved (name, title)Whom I toldWhat they said or did

Chapter 36 · Tool

Important contacts

Nursing home name and address

Unit / room number

Main phone and nursing station

Charge nurse or unit manager

Director of Nursing

Administrator

Social worker

Attending physician

Grievance official

Health care agent / representative

Outside help

Emergency or crime911
NYS Department of Health nursing home complaints1-888-201-4563
Long Term Care Ombudsman (independent advocate)1-855-582-6769
Compare nursing homes, inspections and staffingrightsforvictims.com/nursing-homes-ny
Free Records Request Kitrightsforvictims.com/nursing-home-records
Free review of a concern (Leitner Warywoda PLLC)(855) 585-2969

Chapter 37 · Reference

Glossary of terms and abbreviations

ADL
Activities of daily living: bathing, dressing, eating, toileting, moving and walking.
Baseline care plan
The first, short care plan, due within 48 hours of admission.
Braden Scale
A score used to measure a resident's risk of developing pressure injuries. Lower scores mean higher risk.
Care plan
The written plan listing each of the resident's problems, goals and the steps staff must take.
CMS
Centers for Medicare & Medicaid Services, the federal agency that sets nursing home rules.
CNA
Certified nursing assistant. Provides most hands-on care.
DNR
Do not resuscitate order.
DOH
New York State Department of Health, which licenses and inspects nursing homes.
DON
Director of Nursing. Leads the nursing department.
Flow sheet
Records where nursing assistants document care such as turning, toileting, bathing and meals.
Grievance
A complaint the facility must investigate and answer in writing.
Health care proxy
A document naming an agent to make health care decisions if the resident cannot.
IDT
Interdisciplinary team: nursing, social work, dietary, therapy, activities and the physician.
LPN
Licensed practical nurse.
MAR
Medication administration record, showing each dose given or missed.
MDS
Minimum Data Set, the standard federal assessment done at admission, quarterly and after major changes.
MOLST
Medical Orders for Life-Sustaining Treatment, New York's form for end-of-life treatment wishes.
Ombudsman
An independent advocate for residents who does not work for the facility.
PRN
"As needed," used for medications given only when a need arises.
Pressure injury
Damage to skin and tissue from pressure, also called a bedsore or pressure ulcer. Staged 1 through 4.
PT / OT / SLP
Physical therapy, occupational therapy, speech-language pathology.
RN
Registered nurse.
Statement of Deficiencies (Form 2567)
The inspection report listing a facility's violations, available on our directory pages.
TAR
Treatment administration record, showing wound care and other treatments.
24-hour report
A shift-to-shift report of residents with changes, falls or new problems.

Notes

You are not alone

If you are worried about the care someone you love is receiving, start with the steps in this guide. If the resident has been seriously hurt, or the facility will not fix the problem, a nursing home attorney can review what happened at no charge.

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